Is it so hard to be who you are?  Most people are fake.  They act like someone they aren’t when they are out, or when they meet someone new.  They hide the things about themselves that they know are put-offs.  But they are not willing to change those things.  They hide them and then show them a little bit at a time as they get to know a person better.

Sure, those people make a lot of ‘friends’.  People like them.  But the people are not liking who they really are, the people are liking the fake person they are showing.  Are we so afraid of being rejected that we have to act?  Do everyone a favor and BE REAL.  Let people know right away who it is you really are.  That way they don’t waste thier time or yours becoming attached to a character you are acting out.

And when you meet someone who is REAL, and shows who they really are, if you don’t like it then let them know and move on.  Don’t waste your time trying to change someone who is real.  They are doing you a favor by letting you know who they really are.  Sure they probably don’t have a LOT of friends, but I guarantee you the ones they do have are REAL friends, not the fake friends that most people have.  Because those friends know who the person really is, they knew it from the first few days they met them and accepted that person for who they REALLY are.

If everyone would stop being so fake it would make it a lot easier for everyone to find people they get along with.  People that they can be happy with.  And everyone would stop wasting so much time on other people they could never co-exist with.

Trust me.. it’s not such a bad thing to have most people not like you.. because if everyone was REAL most people wouldn’t like them.  The people that have a bunch of people like them are the ones that are fake.  And they might also find out if they were a fly on the wall that the people they think like them maybe not so much.  Those people probably get glimpses of the REAL person and don’t like it so they talk behind the back of the actor.  Of the FAKE.  Because they are also fake, so they don’t let the person know they don’t like them because for some reason they need to keep the act up.

Let’s just all do each other a favor and try to be REAL from now on.  Lets leave the acting to the movies and TV.